From cobwebs to candy canes: is it too soon for holiday cheer?

Holiday decorations bring cheer.
Kerri-Lee Mayland

Holiday decorations bring cheer.
I just put the skeletons away — literally — into their neatly labeled Halloween plastic bins, along with the faux cobwebs, flickering lanterns and haunted houses that feature tiny tea lights. As I closed the lid, I found myself eyeing — albeit hesitantly — the Christmas décor.
We just voted, and now I’m sprinting toward Christmas? Too soon? Maybe. But before you judge, hear me out.
As an interior designer with a seasonal division, decorating restaurants, hotels and client homes fills the calendar long before December’s first flakes fall. While many of you are still working your way through leftover trick-or-treat candy, I’m busy fluffing garlands, steaming bows and untangling strings of lights that somehow tie themselves into sailors’ knots. Full inventory assessments are underway, batteries and extension cords are being tested, and by Thanksgiving or shortly after, every wreath, tree and ornament will be perfectly placed.
As for my own holiday décor? Well, it’ll likely go up somewhere between Black Friday and Christmas Eve, when I’ll be tiptoeing through my living room at 2 a.m., stringing lights and hoping I get even half of it up before I run out of time.
This year, I’m seriously considering pulling a page from my freshman daughter’s and college-aged niece’s book. Their bedrooms in our home are already little winter wonderlands — soft fairy lights, flocked mini trees, cozy throws, flannel sheets and all the sparkly magic of the season. It’s less “Santa’s Workshop” and more “quiet snow globe” — peaceful, pretty and brimming with cheer.
And honestly, who couldn’t use a bit more of that?
Truth be told, there’s some science behind it. Studies show that people who decorate earlier tend to be happier. Psychologists say it triggers nostalgic feelings, releases dopamine — the “happy hormone” — and brings back joyful memories from childhood. In other words, twinkling lights really do make life brighter.
Still, not everyone’s on board with decking the halls before the bird’s even in the oven. So, in the spirit of balance, let’s do a deep dive into the pros and cons.
The Pros of Decorating Early.
Longer enjoyment: You’ve spent time, energy and maybe a small fortune on décor — why not enjoy it for more than three weeks?
Less stress: Getting it done early means you can actually relax come December. Imagine that!
Instant cheer: The world feels a little kinder under twinkle lights.
Creative freedom: You’re not rushed. You can style and restyle until it feels just right.
Built-in motivation: Once it’s up, you’ll want to keep everything else organized and tidy. (It’s the decorator’s paradox.)
The Cons of Decorating Early.
Holiday burnout: Start too soon and you might be ready to take it all down before Santa even arrives.
Thanksgiving confusion: A turkey centerpiece under mistletoe just feels ... conflicted.
Peer pressure: Not everyone’s thrilled about jingling bells before mid-November.
Storage shuffle: Early decorating means the Halloween bins and Christmas bins battle for garage space.
Power bills: All those early twinkle lights can add up — financially and electrically.
For me, it’s a toss-up. I’m not hosting Thanksgiving — I do a big bash in October for our traditional Canadian Thanksgiving — so we’ll be at my in-laws’ here in Lakeville. That might give me just the breathing room I need to lean into the sparkle a little sooner.
But really, in the end, it isn’t about when the décor goes up — it’s about what it stirs inside us. The scent of pine, the glow of soft lights, the little moments that slow us down and remind us what we’re grateful for. Whether in November or December, if your holiday décor fills your home with peace and your heart with joy, that’s perfect timing.
Kerri-Lee Mayland is an Emmy award-winning news anchor and designer. She lives in Lakeville.
The Town of North East’s Boulevard District — a stretch of Route 44 between Millerton and the New York State border — is the town’s largest commercial zone. The proposed zoning rewrite would allow mixed-use buildings with residential apartments above ground-floor retail.
MILLERTON — A group called “Save Millerton” has sparked debate over the Town of North East’s proposed zoning overhaul, circulating disputed claims about transparency, enforcement, and the town’s long-term direction.
The group recently published two half-page ads in The News that have drawn wide attention — and criticism from town officials and volunteers — as residents try to understand the 181-page rewrite currently under review. The ads raised concerns about the new zoning code and the process behind its creation.
The claims raised by Save Millerton have prompted many residents to scrutinize the draft code, released Nov. 18, while leaving others confused as they navigate competing interpretations of what the zoning overhaul would permit.
Town officials, meanwhile, say they are finalizing the product — a process that has already taken several years — to modernize an outdated zoning code adopted in 1977, with the goals of supporting local business and creating new housing options. However, Save Millerton organizer Tyler Graham argues the process has lacked transparency and the draft raises questions that have not been adequately explained.
To understand the debate, The News spoke with Graham, who lives on Cooper Road, and Town Supervisor Chris Kennan about the issues at stake, the origins of Save Millerton, and the group’s goals.
What is ‘Save Millerton’?
Graham described Save Millerton as an informal effort made up of a small number of residents concerned about the zoning rewrite and future enforcement. The News could not independently confirm the number of participants.
Graham said he has been speaking with other residents and collecting email addresses through his website, www.savemillerton.org, where he plans to post documents and commentary related to the zoning process.
He said the campaign’s purpose is to call attention to gaps in enforcement, demand greater transparency, and question the speed at which the rewrite is moving toward adoption. The effort stems partly from a long dispute on Cooper Road, where Graham and several neighbors allege that an illegally constructed dwelling has gone unenforced for years.
Graham said requests for information about the case were “stonewalled,” leaving residents frustrated. Kennan declined to discuss the issue, calling it decades-old and complicated, and said the Town has retained outside counsel.
Graham said that experience fuels his skepticism about the zoning overhaul.
What are Save Millerton’s claims?
One of Save Millerton’s claims is that the proposed update of accessory dwelling units (ADUs) could accelerate residential density in ways that change the town’s character. Graham said allowing accessory units could have major consequences.
Town officials disagree. Kennan disputes that view, noting that strict septic requirements significantly limit where ADUs can be built. He emphasizes that accessory apartments already exist in the current code and that most homeowners will not have the capacity to add a unit even under a more permissive framework.
A second concern Save Millerton highlights is the possibility of “big-box stores” or large-scale commercial development entering North East. Graham said most residents he’s spoken with prefer driving to Poughkeepsie or Great Barrington for large retail and want Millerton to retain its small-town character.
Kennan counters that such fears are unrealistic, given the parcel sizes in the commercial districts and the area’s low population density. He noted that the commercial parcels in North East are far too small for stores on the scale of a Walmart or Costco.
However, he noted that “many residents would welcome new shopping options.”
The Town’s view
Town officials maintain that the overhaul stems from recommendations in the 2019 Comprehensive Plan and years of work by the Zoning Review Committee, which has held nearly 100 meetings. Kennan said the code is intended to support business growth and expand housing opportunities — not transform Millerton into something unrecognizable.
“I hope those who took the time to follow the process will appreciate the effort and attention to detail that went into the revisions,” Kennan said. While acknowledging that residents have “every right to express their views,” Kennan said the Save Millerton ads contained “misinformation and errors,” citing, for example, a reference to a “new Village Hall” rather than a new Town Hall.
Bill Kish, a volunteer and member of the Planning Board and Zoning Review Committee, also expressed frustration with the advertisements. “As somebody who spent five years working as a volunteer to try to develop the best possible commercial zoning, I’m taking into account as many points of view as possible,” he said. “However, I find it disturbing that this series of advertisements appeared at the very last minute, seemingly designed to throw a hand grenade at the whole process.”
Next steps and enforcement going forward
Kennan acknowledged longstanding concerns over the town’s reputation of lackluster zoning enforcement. “Zoning enforcement is a repeatedly mentioned concern, and has been for decades,” he said. “The Town intends to address this and continue to make improvements.”
The first public hearing on the zoning overhaul is scheduled for Jan. 8, 2026, at North East Town Hall at 19 North Maple Ave. Kennan has emphasized that additional public hearings will be scheduled as necessary. Residents are encouraged to read the zoning draft online at townofnortheastny.gov/zoning-review-committee/ or in person at Town Hall. Digital and hard copies are available.
AMENIA — Revisions to the town regulations outlining the separate roles and structures of the Planning Board and the Zoning Board of Appeals (ZBA) will be considered at public hearings on Thursday, Dec. 18, at Town Hall, beginning at 7 p.m.
Amendments to the local code seek to clarify the structure of both boards, along with the appointment of alternates, training, attendance and the process for removing members. Residents are invited to comment on the proposed regulations during the public hearings or to provide written comments in advance.
The five-member ZBA, whose members serve five-year terms, would be expanded with the addition of two alternate members appointed by the Town Board for one-year terms, should the changes be adopted. If a ZBA member is absent or must recuse due to a conflict of interest on a particular application, the chairman would seat an alternate in their place.
Requirements for four hours of training annually would apply to all members, as well as alternates under the new code.
Under the proposed attendance requirements, ZBA members may not be absent for more than three consecutive meetings or for more than eight meetings within a calendar year.
Under the amended codes, the seven members of the Planning Board would serve for seven-year terms. The Town Board would appoint two alternate members, each for one-year terms. Four hours of training would be required for all members annually. No member would be allowed to be absent for more than three consecutive meetings or a total of five meetings in a calendar year.
Copies of the proposed local laws can be viewed on the town hall website at https://ameniany.gov.
North East Town Hall in Millerton, where officials continue to discuss updates to the town’s zoning code.
MILLERTON — Planning Board members raised a mix of broad and detailed concerns about the Town of North East’s proposed zoning plan during a special meeting on Wednesday, Dec. 3 — their final discussion before the public hearing set for Jan. 8.
The 181-page draft plan represents a rewrite of the town’s decades-old zoning code, updating definitions, commercial use rules, and standards for parking, lighting and design. Town officials say the overhaul is meant to eliminate inconsistencies and give applicants and reviewers a clearer, more functional set of rules.
At Wednesday’s meeting, Planning Board members offered comments that ranged from line-by-line concerns to questions about how cohesively the document functions as a whole.
Planning Board member Dan Sternberg offered the widest critique. “I think as a whole, this draft is not well drafted. I think as a legal document — as a piece of legislation — it’s got a lot of problems. It reads like something drafted by committee.”
Sternberg suggested the document should be considered more holistically, and the language of the proposed draft should be more consistent and clear.
He said lifting examples of codes from other towns likely contributed to the disjointedness of the draft. “The language used in it may not be consistent with some of the language of the rest of our code,” Sternberg said. “I’ve read lots and lots of agreements, lots and lots of legislation over the years, and seeing the drafting process, I can tell that this was kind of stitched together.”
Board members appeared reluctant to scrap the draft outright, arguing that doing so would dismiss several years of work by volunteers and consultants. Instead, they expect to recommend that the Town Board focus on clarifying sections where the language is not clear.
Planning Board member Bill Kish, who served on the Zoning Review Commission that drafted the commercial zoning overhaul, offered a defense of the draft.
Kish emphasized that nothing in the draft was borrowed casually. He said that anything that was borrowed was the subject of at least one full meeting and it was discussed again. “This is about as good as you can get using the process that we had,” Kish said. “That’s all I can say.”
Nevertheless, Planning Board Chair Dale Culver said he agreed with Sternberg's criticism. "I'm never in favor of lifting other towns' codes that are a long ways from our town," Culver said. "Because we tend to get their slant of their view for their code for their town. And our town may be different. It quite often is."
It remained unclear at the close of the meeting whether Sternberg’s broader criticism would be included in the Planning Board’s formal memo to the Town Board. The implications are significant: if the critique is included, it signals that the full board believes the draft needs broader revision. If it is not included, the Town Board receives a narrower set of recommendations, and Sternberg’s concerns will arrive only through his individual memo.
Board members did have consensus on other comments that will be included in the board's memo. Board member Leslie Farhangi requested that the phrase "cage-type poultry" be removed from the draft entirely.
Farhangi also recommended — and the board agreed — that approvals should include an expiration date. Board members noted that a plan could be approved and then remain unbuilt for years, while the town changes.
The Planning Board's memo has not yet been drafted as of press time. Planning Board members were also encouraged to submit individual letters to the Town Board expressing any concerns that the board didn't have consensus on.
"We can't have it be all unanimous consent," Culver said. "Because if that's the case, are we all thinking or are we just listening and agreeing?"
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