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Hunt Library director Meg Sher, left, and Linda Ciaro of Project SAGE before delivering a presentation on online safety for youth.
Patrick L.sullivan
FALLS VILLAGE — Maintaining online safety for young people in northwest Connecticut requires an understanding of the dangers of being online and the willingness to plan ahead for when – not if – a bad situation arises.
That was the message from Project Sage’s Linda Ciano, who spoke at the David M. Hunt Library Thursday evening, Nov. 20, in Falls Village, part of an ongoing effort to educate families about online safety across the Northwest Corner.
The talk drew parents and educators from several Region One towns – communities where many residents rely heavily on digital communication to stay connected.
Ciano said cyberbullying can occur on any online device and in any format - social media, text message, etc. This distinguishes cyberbullying from its real-life counterpart.. “Cyberbullying follows the victim into the home.”
Over half of children between the ages of 14 and 17 report some experience with cyberbullying, and it is about evenly split between girls and boys.
Victims can become antisocial, develop substance abuse problems, and express suicidal ideation.
And while young people grow up and move past any bullying in real life, cyberbullying is what Ciano calls a “repetitive harm.”
“It’s up there forever.”
Online predators
Victims of cyberbullying usually know their attackers. However, this is not the case for those children who are lured into compromising situations by online predators.
Ciano showed a slide showing a plain white van, puppies and candy.
She explained that these are the images associated with predators, and that children are taught from an early age to be wary of the man in the white van with the puppies etc.
“But the internet brings strangers into the home all the time.”
Even in small Northwest Corner towns, where families often assume they know their neighbors, online spaces create risks that feel far removed from semi-rural life.
Online predators and groomers often follow a script, and gradually increase the level of intimacy with their victims.
Ciano said that teenagers don’t think of online strangers the same way they think of the “man in the van.”
Often youngsters will be gradually convinced to send their new online “friends” nude photos or videos.
The predator then threatens to make the images public unless the victim sends more, or demands money to not post them.
The advent of artificial intelligence makes all of this more complicated, because AI can create a convincing nude image of someone with nothing but a photo of someone’s face.
Ciano said the key to dealing with these online threats is to recognize the likelihood that something bad will occur, and to be ready for it.
Online safety
Everyone should practice basic online safety, including setting everything to “private,” turning off location tools, and only following people they know in real life on social media.
Beyond that, Ciano said a good practice is to advise young people not to send nude photos of themselves to anybody.
“If the person in the photo is underage then it is child pornography,” she said flatly, adding that anyone who sends it along or has it downloaded on a device is going to be in big trouble if it is discovered.
Parents and children can create a family agreement on how to proceed in the event of a cyber “accident.”
To manage the situation, Ciano recommends the following actions for children:
1) Stop responding. Some predators will give up and seek easier prey.
2) Preserve evidence. Ciano said the urge is to delete everything, but it is important to preserve records of the encounters using screenshots, external drives, and printing out hard copies.
3) Call in your team – the group of trusted adults that the children and parents identified in their safety plan.
The adults need to:
1) Believe the child.
2) Validate the child’s experience and show empathy
3) Provide support
4) Report the predatory activity to the appropriate authorities.
Ciano said the federal Take It Down Act went into effect in May.
The legislation makes it a federal crime to distribute intimate images of people without their permission — including authentic images and images created by artificial intelligence.
The law also establishes a process for filing a request to remove images within 48 hours, and creates a national standard and mechanism where none existed.
Ciano said that Project SAGE is now in its fourth year of talking to Region One students in grades 6 through 12 about online safety.
She said today’s seniors are far more aware of online safety issues than their counterparts from four years ago, and she expects this to continue to improve.
“This is a seven year conversation.”
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Rie McCarthy’s ceramics caught the eye of Keavey Bedell at Salisbury Handmade .
Patrick L. Sullivan
SALISBURY — The curious and the driven bustled into the White Hart Saturday, Nov. 29 for the first of two Salisbury Handmade events. Vendors offered a wide range of handmade products that the average holiday shopper is not going to find at a chain store.
Most of the people there were in the curious camp. Keavey Bedell looked casually at Rie McCarthy’s ceramics, and then more closely at a Jizo statue (a small representation of the Buddha). Bedell decided on the larger of the two Jizos.
McCarthy’s wares start around $25 for small bowls suitable for condiments to $35 for minimalist tea cups to larger items like serving bowls. She makes them in her studio in Mt. Washington, Massachusetts, and while she will not be at the second event on Dec. 13, her goods are available in Great Barrington at the Railroad St. Collective at 25 Railroad St. or at RIESMceramics.com.
Ambling around the corner, a reporter found Marilyn Davis of Amesville and her assortment of four-color prints of local scenes such as Lake Wonoscopomuc and Twin Lakes, all nicely framed and eminently affordable at $30 and up.
Davis’ work is available online Etsy under the name “FavoritePlacesArt,” or email mollyhardy2@gmail.com.
Continuing the circuit, the reporter, who was in the “driven” camp and looking for consumable gifts for his mother who does not want any more permanent “stuff,” came across Ani Jenkins of Falls Village, with assorted skin care items and herbal teas, all hand made.

The teas did the trick. After sampling the two on offer, the decision was made to go with the Peace Blend, consisting of chamomile, tulsi,and sitka rose ($16). It’s loose tea— Jenkins is adamantly anti-tea bag — and she had a couple of mason jar infusers for sale as well.
Jenkins either grows or collects these ingredients, sometimes from Alaska, where she and her husband have a summer cabin. She said she has had many interesting conversations with Transportation Safety Administration officials while bringing back Alaskan herbs. See www.umbotanicals.com for more information.
Shaari Horowitz, a veteran of the Salisbury Handmade scene, had her usual array of truly spectacular wooden bowls, decorated in such a way that actually using them as bowls seems unlikely, like putting the Mona Lisa on a couple of sawhorses as an impromptu picnic table.
No such ambiguity exists with Horowitz’ selection of interesting earrings, starting at $45. Horowitz will be on hand on Dec. 13.
As will Karin Gerstel of Undermountain Weavers. This year the weavers feature rugs and blankets made from Sam’s Wool (Sam Waterston is the Sam involved) starting at $150, plus wool beanies that are perfect for winter ($38).
Salisbury Handmade was established about 18 years ago when a number of local artisans banded together after the closing of Creative Hands, a local craft consignment store.
The group began to organize local shows to showcase local artists and their handmade items under several names, including Renegade Artisans Group, Salisbury Artisans Group and Salisbury Handmade.
Salisbury Handmade promotes four shows per year. The one-day spring show happens outdoors on the White Hart lawn in mid-May. The two-day autumn show, also on the lawn, occurs during the Salisbury Fall Festiva, and two one-day holiday shows are hosted inside the Inn.
Salisbury Handmade shares proceeds from the shows with local non-profits. The group also thanks the White Hart for hosting the shows.
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Cold temperatures pushed the Sneed family into Candy-o’s on Main Street where Tanner Sneed shows off his Grinch face to son William on Friday, Nov. 28.
Photo by Nathan Miller
The Millerton Festival of Lights returned to downtown Friday, Nov. 28, with a full day of holiday activities and treats for kids and families across the village. Paraders capped the night with light-adorned trucks, tractors, trailers and even a bicycle.
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Rachele Grieco Cole
Photo by Aly Morrissey
MILLERTON — From the Jersey shore to the Taconic Mountains, incoming Democratic Town Board member Rachele Grieco Cole has followed a distinctive path – one that includes living in a seminary, earning a degree in theology and navigating the world of nonprofit grants and fundraising.
In January, she will become the newest member of the Town Board, where she looks forward to contributing in myriad ways – especially when it comes to affordable housing. She hopes to collaborate closely with Councilwoman Meg Winkler, who leads the housing committee and has spearheaded efforts toward Pro-Housing Community status and supported the PlusOne ADU program.
“There are people who are struggling to keep a roof over their heads,” said Grieco Cole. “Whether it’s the ability to age in place or young families trying to put down roots, we need affordable housing and we need to keep talking about it as a board.”
Grieco Cole’s uncontested run this year contrasted sharply with her 2024 campaign, when she sought to fill a one-year vacancy on the board.
Although she lost to Republican Chris Mayville – who also secured an uncontested win this year to retain his seat – Grieco Cole doesn’t view her earlier defeat as a “loss.” The race was tight, and as a newcomer she earned 47% of the vote, giving her name recognition and valuable experience ahead of this election cycle.
“I think I knocked on over 200 doors,” she said. “I met a lot of people and we had good conversations – I feel like they got to know me.”
The 2024 campaign helped her hit the ground running this fall as she canvassed for Democratic candidates for county office. Among the most common concerns she heard from residents were the timeline for the long-awaited grocery store, veterans’ benefits and high vehicle speeds on residential roads.
Grieco Cole plans to bring her extensive background in grant management to the board. She currently manages grants for a New York Law School, a nonprofit law school in New York City, securing funding for social justice and civic engagement initiatives.Over the years, she has developed a nuanced understanding of how communication, trust and relationship building drive successful grantmaking.
“It’s about putting in the time to establish relationships and follow up,” she said, adding that federal grants are “drying up.” Still, she said she isn’t afraid of the work required to achieve results.
Locally, Grieco Cole has helped guide the process for three New York State grants supporting the new short-course Olympic pool at Eddie Collins Memorial Park. “It has been really interesting and exciting and I can’t wait for it to come to fruition,” she said. The village expects to break ground on that project next summer after the July celebration of the Village of Millerton’s 175th anniversary.
Grieco Cole says she and her husband fell instantly in love with Millerton and can’t imagine themselves living anywhere else. Like many residents in the region, they traded in the hustle and bustle of New York City for the slower pace and rural charm of the area. “I love how everyone here has a voice,” she said. “You don’t get that in the city.”
The historic Moviehouse and downtown played a role in their move, and when they found an old house to restore, Grieco Cole said “there was no turning back.”
A regular at town meetings, a volunteer with the new village tree committee and an active patron of Main Street businesses, Grieco Cole wants residents to know she’s invested in Millerton’s future, follows through on commitments and approaches the role with good intentions.
She will soon attend a three-day training session for newly elected town officials. “The agenda is really loaded and I want to absorb as much as I can out the gate,” she said. “It will be a learning curve and I’m looking forward to that.”
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