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MILLERTON — Whether they opted for a remote or hybrid learning experience, Harlem Valley students had to adapt to a new normal as they embarked on the 2020-21 school year in the midst of the global coronavirus pandemic. These changes have stood out distinctly for high school seniors. Yet many students have chosen not to be defeated by the uncertainties of life under quarantine and have instead decided to work to the best of their abilities in pursuit of a brighter future. Such is the case for Xin Wong of Millerton, who recently shared the challenges of finishing his senior year at Webutuck High School during the pandemic as part of the Ancram Opera House’s “Local Characters: Back to School” program.
“Local Characters” is a sister storytelling program to the Ancram Opera House’s “Real People, Real Stories.” Both are rooted in the idea that everyone has a story to tell. Ancram Opera House Director Paul Riccardi said the opera house has been doing “Real People, Real Stories” for five years and has since expanded to reach out to children and young adults, including those involved with the Teen Team program at the North East Community Center (NECC).
Riccardi explained that “Local Characters” was originally designed as live dialogue before an audience, just like a talk show. Just as they were developing the program, the Ancram Opera House went into lockdown due to COVID-19 and shifted the program to a virtual format in which people would be interviewed via Zoom. What might start out as a 30-minute interview is typically edited down to five minutes, to share the essence of what the interviewee is talking about, Riccardi said.
“It’s different from ‘Real People, Real Stories,’” he explained, “but it’s still someone telling a story. It’s very quickly that you can sense the spirit of what someone is trying to say.”
After conducting a round of interviews focused on a Mother’s Day theme this past spring, “Local Characters” launched a second round of interviews in the fall, this time focusing on a back to school theme. The series was launched in three installments on Friday, Oct. 23; Friday, Oct. 30; and Friday, Nov. 6, featuring interviews with Beth Flores, a librarian at Taconic Hills Middle School; Ancramdale parent Colleen Lutz; and Xin.
When asked how he chose Xin, Riccardi said he met the Webutuck student through his involvement in Teen Team, since the Ancram Opera House and NECC partner together on a regular basis. This year marks Xin’s fourth year with Teen Team, according to NECC Teen Program Director Jackie Osnato. Riccardi said Xin was very interested and eager to participate in “Local Characters,” and that they talked about what it’s like to be a senior during COVID-19 and what Xin has done these past nearly nine months.
“Xin was very matter-of-fact,” Riccardi said. “I was really impressed that Xin was neither panicked, nor frustrated. Xin seemed to be looking at the pandemic straight in the eye and deal with what’s in front of him. He’s very focused on his studies; he’s very focused on his future.”
Indeed, Xin presents himself as calm and collected, even in the midst of a global catastrophe. With his parents scared about his falling ill, Xin shared that he stayed indoors all summer, but kept active by working, engaging in virtual college tours and assembling puzzles in his spare time. As far as his plans go, he said they haven’t changed that much. Looking ahead, he’d like to attend school somewhere close to home, perhaps studying for two years at Dutchess Community College and then transitioning to a four-year college. He shared his interest in studying accounting or another subject involving math and then pursuing a career that’s “steady and independent.”
Along with sharing his hopes on how the pandemic will transpire, Xin commented on the rise of social activism over the last few months and his hopes for a brighter future.
“I hope more adults read the news or care more about what’s going to happen in the future,” Xin said, adding that he was trying to get his parents to vote in the 2020 presidential election.
Based on what she’s observed of Xin from his involvement in the Teen Team leadership program and NECC’s Teen Jobs program, Osnato praised the Millerton teen as a natural leader.
“He’s very charismatic; he is willing to learn and eager to grow, he participates in a majority of activities and programs that are held through the community center with partners like the Ancram Opera House,” she said, adding Xin attended “Real People, Real Stories” to watch his peers perform onstage. “He’s a very supportive, active member of our group and he has a big heart. We love Xin.”
Inspired by the ways in which Xin has stayed connected to his community while keeping himself and his family safe, Osnato said, “I think he has a real strong sense of what it takes to be a leader and what opportunities will be challenging for him, but he’s willing to give that a try so he can grow. I’m also not surprised that he said yes to this opportunity because he’s willing to grow.”
To watch Xin’s “Local Characters” interview, go to www.ancramoperahouse.com.
Jan. 27 marked the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz-Birkenau. I traveled to Poland as part of a delegation for the commemoration and spent a few days before the event with my father and sister learning, remembering and gathering information.
My dad’s parents, Miriam and Yehuda, of blessed memory, were deported to Auschwitz -Birkenau from the Lódz Ghetto. They both had families that perished and met each other after the camp was liberated.
The gate at Auschwitz. Natalia Zukerman
I put my feet in the train tracks where they would have arrived, ran my hands across the walls of the horrible gas chambers, the broken wood of the crowded bunks, gathered dirt in my shoes where they would have walked, and made sure to touch the trunks of the trees along the path—innocent witnesses.
My father’s parents survived. How did they do it? Miriam was quickly sent to a work camp on the Czech border, and Yehuda played violin in the Auschwitz orchestra (aka the Death Orchestra). Music saved him. A million miracles saved them both.
Many members of our extended family did not survive.
Suitcases taken from prisoners at Auschwitz.Natalia Zukerman
Cuikerman was the original Polish spelling of our name. We poured over page after page of our name in the Book of Names. I can’t explain it, but as I read the names—aloud and quietly—I felt some of their spirits finally release.
Innocent witnesses.
I never wanted to come to Auschwitz-Birkenau. I grew up in the shadow of the Holocaust. It was part of our dark story. From the time I was very little, I saw all the images, watched the movies, read the books. I’ve had nightmares my whole life. I remember the tattoo on my grandmother’s forearm. This was enough.
But until you stand in the field the size of a city and look out at the expanse of crematoria, gas chambers, bunkers, the enormity and scale is just a story, words on a page. Now I have metabolized it in a different way. Now it is part of my DNA on a deeper level. Now I am changed.
A crematorium at Auschwitz.Natalia Zukerman
On Holocaust Remembrance Day, world leaders from fifty countries—including King Charles, Volodymyr Zelenskyy, Emmanuel Macron, Justin Trudeau and so many more— gathered with survivors and their families, musicians, friends and patrons of the organization in an enormous tent at the entrance to Birkenau. A freight train stood in front of the main gate. The car, from Germany, honors the 420,000 Hungarian Jews deported in 1944. Its conservation was funded by Frank Lowy, whose father, Hugo, was killed in the camp.
It radiated with horror in almost theatrical lighting, its now silenced whistle audible in the memories of all who gathered.
I listened to survivor after survivor speak. I watched as each world leader lit candles in remembrance. I said Kaddish (the Jewish prayer for the dead) with the several thousand people present.
But I only heard one person, 99-year-old Polish-born Swedish-Jewish doctor Leon Weintraub, utter any words that made sense to me, to my very fragile and shaken heart. He became a doctor after the war and told the group gathered the one absolute truth: there is only one race—the human race. He talked about the fact that under the skin, we are the same, words that were beyond powerful. In the very place where the most evil “experiments” were conducted to prove the supremacy of the Aryan race, this man stood there in all his beautiful bravery and told the truth. He was able, for a moment, to remove a hierarchy of care and replace it with an expansive, human appeal. He brought the memory of all the people killed, not just the Jews when he said, “be sensitive to all manifestations of intolerance and dislike of those who differ in terms of skin color, religion or sexual orientation.” He widened the conversation, lest we also forget the Romani, queer, disabled, dissidents and more that were also victims of the Nazis. Lest we forget the lesson of Gandhi when he said, “intolerance itself is a form of violence.”
Weintraub ended by saying, “allowing the memory of millions of innocent victims to fade would be equivalent to robbing them of their lives a second time.”
Shoes taken from prisoners.Natalia Zukerman
There are multiple genocides on planet earth right now. There are humans in actual concentration camps as I write this. There are whole populations being murdered.
After this experience, more than ever, I vow to speak the truth as loudly and as often as I can.
Speaking up, questioning and protesting is not only not antisemitism, it defines the core principles of what it means to be Jewish.
A beautiful Jewish human named Albert Einstein said, “Our task must be to free ourselves by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty.”
This must and will be my task. Nothing else makes any sense.
Prisoners slept four to a bunk at Birkenau.Natalia Zukerman
Dina La Fonte
The “sober curious” movement has gained momentum in recent years, encouraging individuals to explore life without alcohol—whether for health reasons, personal growth, or simple curiosity. Dina La Fonte, a certified recovery coach, is theSenior Business Affairs Associate at Mountainside, an alcohol and drug addiction treatment center with a holistic approach to wellness that has several locations, including the one in Canaan, Connecticut. With nearly five years of sobriety, La Fonte blends professional expertise with lived experience, making her a powerful advocate for recovery.
Like many, La Fonte’s path to recovery was not just about removing alcohol; it was about rediscovering herself. “Once you get sober from a substance, whether it’s alcohol, drugs, gambling or what have you, emotional aspects of change come into place,” she explained. “It’s not a hard stop; it’s a continued process of integration and struggle.” Her own journey has led her to a career in recovery coaching, allowing her to help others find their own path.
“What I love about my work at Mountainside is that it allows me to be who I am without forcing me into a mold,” she said. “In recovery, we identify our authentic voice, establish boundaries, and clarify what we truly want.”
La Fonte explained that the rise of the “sober curious” movement may reflect a cultural shift in how we approach alcohol and self-care. La Fonte attributes this change to open conversations that break down stigma. “Even five or six years ago, admitting you had a problem came with embarrassment,” she said. “Now, the more we discuss it, the more people realize they’re not alone.” This newfound openness has perhaps made it easier for some individuals to explore sobriety and even do so without the pressure of a lifelong commitment.
Beyond emotional well-being, La Fonte also noted the physical benefits of sobriety. “It wasn’t immediate, but after a year, I noticed my skin clearing up, my energy improving, and my confidence growing,” she recalled. “Casual drinking dehydrates the skin, affects sleep, and contributes to inflammation. When people realize how much better they feel without alcohol, they want to hold onto that.”
In her role at Mountainside, La Fonte has expanded beyond coaching to influence organization-wide initiatives. “I still work directly with clients, but now I also help evolve how we support them,” she said. “Mountainside takes a holistic approach—integrating yoga, grief therapy, sound baths, and more. It’s not about pushing people through a system; it’s about meeting them where they are.”
La Fonte uses her social media platform as a “micro-influencer” to promote sober living and wellness. “I focus on positivity in sobriety—whether it’s skincare, self-care, or mental health. I test vegan and cruelty-free products, but I only promote what aligns with my values.”
For those exploring sobriety, La Fonte’s message is simple: “I’m not here to judge. I’m here to help.” She encourages open conversations and meeting people where they are. “If you’re curious about sobriety, let’s talk. I don’t need to know you to be proud of you. I don’t need to know you to love you. I already love you.Just reaching out is a huge step.”
With voices like La Fonte’s leading the conversation, perhaps the sober curious movement is more than a trend—it’s a cultural shift redefining what it means to live fully and authentically.
To contact Dina La Fonte, email her at dina.lafonte@mountainside.com, explore the Mountainside website at mountainside.com, or follow La Fonte on Instagram @dinalafonte