Patricia Eloise (Kilby)  Fleming Kelsey

Patricia Eloise (Kilby) Fleming Kelsey

SHARON — Patricia Eloise (Kilby) Fleming Kelsey passed into the loving arms of her Lord on Nov. 26, 2020.

Patricia Eloise Kilby was born on Dec. 29, 1949, to the  Rev. John G. Kilby and Mary Jean Hazel (Rediker) Kilby in Island Pond, Vt. 

Patricia, also known as Pat, was raised with nine siblings in Island Pond, White River Junction, Vt. and Whitefield, N.H. Her siblings are Linda Kilby, John Kilby, Betty Shendorf, Robert Kilby, Dorothy Kilby-Turcotte, Charles Kilby, Alice Armstrong and Michael Kilby. 

Pat graduated from White Mountain Regional High School in Whitefield in June 1968. Her favorite subject was home economics. That came in handy raising her sons. Pat was the first of her siblings to: Get married, have a child and a great-grandchild.

Patricia married Claude Lawrence Fleming on Oct. 19, 1968, in Whitefield. Her father officiated the ceremony. Pat and Claude lived for years in North Canaan, where they raised their three sons. Patricia was primarily a homemaker and a devoted member of her church. She and Claude celebrated 24 years of marriage before his death in 1993. 

She married William Kelsey on May 25, 1996, and has resided in Sharon for the past 24 years.

Being surrounded by family was a delight for Patricia. She was known by all of her granddaughters as “Nanna.” Pat was an avid quilter and loved to crochet. Everyone in the family had something that she had made over the years. Taking walks along the country roads near her home gave Pat peace of mind. She loved butterflies and making homemade preserves from the fruit she would pick and the vegetables from her garden. Pat would spend each morning in quiet devotion to her Lord and end each night reading her favorite parts of the Bible she kept on her nightstand. She and her husband, Bill, were longtime members of the Sharon Congregational Church.

Patricia is survived by her husband, William Kelsey of Sharon; her sons, Alan Fleming and his wife, Tammy, of North Canaan, Matthew Fleming and his wife, BobbiJo, of Jacksonville, Fla., and her son Wayne Fleming and his wife, Renee, of North Canaan. Patricia had eight talented and beautiful granddaughters, Jayme Fleming-Wampler and Erin Fleming, Ashley, Amanda, and Alexis Fleming, Lindsey Najdek, Lily Najdek and Lydia Fleming, as well as being blessed to be the great-grandmother of Catherine Wampler and Riley Leffingwell. Patricia was also the stepmother of Amy Kelsey-Wheeler of Vermont and Adam Kelsey of Colorado, and grandmother to their children, Quinn, Violet, Liam and Hannah.

Patricia was predeceased by her mother and father; her first husband, Claude Fleming; and her grandson-in-law, Corey Wampler.  

A graveside Christian burial will take place on Saturday, Dec. 5, at 1 p.m. at the Mountain View Cemetery on Sand Road in North Canaan. All are welcome to attend keeping in mind current social distancing and mask requirements.  

Memorial donations may be sent in Patricia’s memory to the Food of Life Pantry, St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Amenia Union, 40 Leedsville Road, Amenia, NY 12501.

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