NORFOLK — Ernest B. Sinclair, April 20, 1937 - October 26, 2026. Ernie, 89, passed quietly on Oct. 26 ,at Geer Lodge in Canaan, Connecticut surrounded by those he loved.
Ernie was born in Bar Harbor, Maine. The family moved to naval housing in Middletown, Rhode Island while father Leon was stationed on battleships in the South Pacific during the second world war. After the war, they made the move to Norfolk, Connecticut. It was here that Ernie met his childhood sweetheart, Carolyn Ryan.They were married in 1959 and wasted no time in starting a family. Over the next six and a half years, four boys and a girl were born. They lived in several places early in their marriage, but in 1967, the lure of a smaller town and a larger house brought them back to Norfolk. Ernie’s earlier experiences with the town had taught him that this was the perfect place to raise his family. He would spend the next 59 years of his life with Norfolk as his anchor.Needing a bit more care to navigate life’s challenges, Ernie moved to Geer Lodge in Canaan just this past May.
Ernie attended Oliver Wolcott Technical School, Grinnell College and the Rhode Island School of Design, eventually obtaining a degree in architecture and becoming a licensed architect, builder and building official. After working for a number of firms early in his career, he began his own design/build business. Working with his three oldest sons, he designed and built structures in Norfolk and much of the surrounding area.
In retirement, Ernie enjoyed many interests including wood carving, drawing, and his real passion, singing.He was amember of many singing groups including the Norfolk Church of Christ choir, Gaudeamus, Octo Cantabile, and the Litchfield County Choral Union. He was also a contributing vocalist on Pete Seeger’s 1996 grammy winning album “Pete”.
Ernie was a lifelong member of the Church of Christ in Norfolk where he served in various leadership positions, sang in the choir and was involved in the completion of many capital improvements to the church campus including the covered entryway at the rear of the chapel - a project he was particularly proud of. He was given the honor of being named a Life Steward for his commitment and service to the church.
Ernie and his partner of the past 26 years, Susie, used their later years to enjoy many of the things together that life had not afforded them earlier. They travelled, sang together and spent many winter months in a condo that Ernie had purchased in Venice, Florida.
Son of the late Leon and Janet (Coffin) Sinclair, Ernie is also predeceased by his wife Carolyn and brothers Pete and David. He leaves behind his partner Susan Hooker, brother Bob and wife Jill, brother Kirk and wife Cindy, son Stephen and wife Barbara, son Scott and wife Lisa, son Michael and wife Patti, daughter Holly, son Tom and wife Deeda, as well as 13 grandchildren, 6 great grandchildren and a large extended family.
The family would like to thank the staff at the Geer campus in Canaan, Connecticut for bringing joy and comfort to Ernie in his final months.
A celebration of Ernie’s life will be held on Sunday Nov. 22, 2026 at 2:00 p.m. at the Church of Christ, Congregational 12 Litchfield Road, Norfolk, Connecticut.
Memorial donations may be made to the Church of Christ, PO Box 582, Norfolk, CT 06058
