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Mary Randolph Carter teaches us to surround ourselves with what matters to live happily ever after.
Carter Berg
There is magic in a home filled with the things we love, and Mary Randolph Carter, affectionately known as “Carter,” has spent a lifetime embracing that magic. Her latest book, “Live with the Things You Love … and You’ll Live Happily Ever After,” is about storytelling, joy, and honoring life’s poetry through the objects we keep.
“This is my tenth book,” Carter said. “At the root of each is my love of collecting, the thrill of the hunt, and living surrounded by things that conjure up family, friends, and memories.”
The creative director at Ralph Lauren for almost four decades, Carter began writing this book during the pandemic, a time of rediscovering comfort. “I found more time to appreciate those special things that give our homes warmth and connection.” Working with Ralph Lauren, she learned that the best spaces tell a personal story. “His desk was filled with toy cars, miniature shoes, superheroes, English dandies, cowboys on horseback. The walls? A gallery of his children’s paintings, iconic photos of Frank Sinatra and Gary Cooper. Everything told a story.”
Carter acknowledges how homes can become overwhelmed with stuff but sees a difference between clutter and collection. “To live happily, create environments that inspire and comfort rather than encumber you! Look around and ask, ‘What is truly meaningful? What makes you smile? What recalls the people and places you cherish?’” Then, she added, “weed out the rest with discipline and courage!”
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Each home in Carter’s book reflects its inhabitant’s spirit. “The first time I walked into Bethann Hardison’s apartment, I knew right away how authentic it was to who she is.” Hardison’s walls are lined with artwork from friends Keith Haring, Jean-Michel Basquiat, and Haitian paintings, testaments to a life well lived. “Though her mantra is, ‘the lighter the load, the freer the journey,’ she also admits some things ‘delight your environment’ and can’t be parted with. Amen to that!”
Having survived two childhood fires, Carter deeply understands what truly matters. “It’s not the things, but the people and memories they evoke.” She loves her collections, but they don’t possess her. “They make me happy, but they do not define me.”
She delights in how people showcase treasures. Paula Grief, for instance, lives in a ten-foot-wide house and had to part with many books. “She tucks the ones she can’t live without through the rungs of her staircase. I love that ingenuity!”
When asked about her most cherished possession, Carter tells a story of loss and serendipity. A childhood portrait of her in a blue velvet dress was lost in a fire. “Years later, the artist’s daughter found another version. Now, it hangs in our apartment, surrounded by flea market art and one of my favorite saints, Our Lady of Guadalupe.”
Adding to the cozy feeling of this book, Carter’s son, Carter Berg, took the photographs, and her sister, Cary, contributed the illustrations. “Cary once stayed in our apartment and painted a dozen objects from our cluttered kitchen. I hung them immediately. When I started this book, I knew she had to capture my favorite objects.”
Four of the featured homes are local to the Northwest Corner, including Carter’s in Millerton, Joan Osofsky’s in Lakeville, Robin Bell’s in Salisbury, and Paula Grief’s in Hudson. They all gathered at the White Hart/Oblong Speaker Series on March 27.
After perusing the richly colored pages of this book, you may feel tempted to shop. “You don’t need money to create a meaningful home,” Carter insisted. “Some of my favorite paintings cost no more than $10 or $25. Value is personal. It’s not about provenance but the story an object tells you or the one you make up.”
Carter’s advice? “Fall in love with the wackiest thing. Surround yourself with what matters, and you’ll live happily ever after.”
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The federal ARPA funding was a COVID-19 relief initiative, allocating $1.9 trillion for pandemic relief that included $350 billion for state and local governments.
Dutchess County began receiving the funds in 2021 and 2022. All $57.1 million needed to be obligated by Dec. 31, 2024, and expended by Dec. 31, 2026.
Aymar-Blair’s report, released March 24, is the final of 12 that have been issued since March 2022. The Comptroller noted that there were three different County Executives over the course of the disbursement time frame.
“With any set of expenditures as large and far-reaching as these, there can be disagreement over the merits, timing, and prioritization of certain projects over others,” Aymar-Blair wrote in his summary.
“However, it is in the opinion of the Comptroller that the planning in relation to the allocation and spending of these funds could have been more rigorous,” he added.
William F.X. O’Neil served as County Executive beginning in January 2023 when he was appointed to complete the third term of Marc Molinaro, who was elected to Congress in the 19th District. Sue Serino took office in January 2024.
As of June 30, 2024, the county had spent a little over $31 million in ARPA funds. In that month, Dutchess County Executives updated the ARPA fund spending plan, choosing to allocate all remaining funds to education in the county, focusing mainly on Dutchess County Community College. The county chose to use the remaining $25 million to fund its contribution to the community college, chargeback costs paid to other community colleges and costs paid toward the New York State-mandated pre-school education program.
“The allocation to the college was a standard obligation that the county makes every year,” Aymar-Blair said in an interview. “What was a tax levy just became ARPA.”
“Reallocating ARPA funds for the Dutchess Community College and Pre-School Special Education costs resulted in a positive impact to the general fund balance in the amount of $15 million,” he said in the report.
Aymar-Blair said positive impacts of the funding included: retaining and hiring new staff, keeping non-profit partners afloat, supporting some of our most vulnerable populations, and generally mitigating the negative impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic on Dutchess County.
A wide variety of grants were distributed through the program.
In Millerton, $328,000 was allocated under the ARPA program for Phase I of Eddie Collins Memorial Park revitalization.
The North East Fire District received $73,283 for protective equipment for fire rescue.
The Amenia Free Library Association received a $2,467 grant for future youth programming.
The Town of Pine Plains received grants for all-terrain wheelchairs, town parks and trails, and to make Stissing Lake Beach Park wheelchair accessible.
ARPA investments were made in several categories: community, county parks, youth services, education, food security, seniors, mental health and emergency medical services.
A plan to spend $11.6 million in ARPA funds for improvements to Heritage Financial Park, home of the Hudson Valley Renegades in Wappingers Falls, was reduced to spend funds for other projects, bringing the total cost of upgrades to the park to $1.4 million. Initial spending plans were changed as other funding plans surfaced, such as in the case of $10 million planned for a Youth Opportunity Center in Poughkeepsie that was reduced to $4.5 million.
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“I don’t see a burden on upcoming budgets,” he said.
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