How kids are coping while in isolation — and their parents, too

Ben and Claire Fiorillo have turned the kitchen island into a shared space for at-home learning during the quarantine. Photo submitted
SALISBURY — When I asked Gwen Fitch, a fourth grader at Salisbury Central School (SCS), if she likes the whole situation of being at home she replied, “It’s just that the classroom is a nice place to work!”
Which was surprising, because many other students I spoke to claim they prefer their own home environment. She said one perk for her at home is being able to spend time with her dogs, Dosa and Chester.
Genevieve Bushey, a senior at Housatonic Valley Regional High School (HVRHS), said she is overwhelmed by the amount of homework she is getting. The good side?
“Sleeping in, mostly,” she responded. Also, as many other students are, she is sad she cannot see her friends.
Second grader Claire Fiorillo does two hours of schoolwork each day. But she adds in a little bit of fun between, such as baking a cake and making a banner for her brother’s birthday.
Her brother, Ben, a fifth grader at SCS, was excited to share his thoughts about being home-schooled: “It’s awesome! Lots of walks, breaks, outside time, drum practice and a flexible schedule!”
Second grader Gibson Will quite enjoys being at home. Although she misses her friends, she is happy to be home. She recently got an iPad just for this new type of learning. She loves being able to sleep in a little more than usual.
Alicia Fitch, the Salisbury parent of an SCS fourth grader, said, “It’s been a challenge. I’m trying to work and she [referring to her daughter] is having trouble staying focused. There’s a lot of pushback that I don’t think happens at school. Maybe I’m just more demanding than they are at school. It’s nice that she can go out and play on the trampoline, but … it’s isolating.”
Natalie Will, the Salisbury parent of an SCS second grader and kindergarten student, said that, “To prepare for home schooling, we did a lot of research on technology to ensure we were prepared to support them in our home.
“We purchased the kids their own iPads, which was a significant expense but invaluable in getting them online with the apps and programs they need for class.
“Having them able to work independently on their own devices also makes it easier, as our entire family is working from home currently.
“To help organize our day, we’ve implemented an academic checklist for each girl’s work and have also set them up in their own spaces, which has helped keep them focused and out of each others’ hair! We appreciate how supportive and creative the teachers at SCS have been during this difficult time.”
Stacey Fiorillo, parent of an SCS second grader and fifth grader, said, “It’s been nice for the kids to take ‘as needed’ breaks. If they need to stop doing schoolwork and play the drums, or go for a walk, they can. It’s also been fun to get creative with subjects.
“I was feeling rather inundated with emails, which was overwhelming, but on the flip side it’s relaxing not having to be anywhere.”
Laura Bushey, parent of one HVRHS freshman and one senior, said, “It’s been difficult juggling not being able to work [she is a personal trainer] and being stuck at home. The kids are having trouble with the social isolation and wanted to have sleepovers They aren’t happy when I tell them ‘no.’
“It’s also hard to think about the future. What will happen with graduation? The lacrosse season? My girls were going to be on the same team for the first time. It’s sad to think about it possibly not happening.
“As a family we are watching movies together, hiking and playing lacrosse. So, that’s been nice.”
Eloise Mallett is a fourth grade student at Salisbury Central School and a Lakeville resident. Her mother, Lenore Mallett, did the parent interviews for this article.
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Our summer interns crowd around Anne Day for an iPhone photo tutorial at The Lakeville Journal office.
Here in the Northeast midsummer is a season worth celebrating. We drive through the countryside that seems to become more lush everyday. For us at The Millerton News and The Lakeville Journal summer also is the journalism intern season when we observe a different kind of growth. This year we are hosting eight paid interns who learn from us just as we learn from them. Four are high school students (including one who was part of a student-launched newspaper at Housatonic Valley Regional High School this spring). That effort was supported by The Journal, and it will continue this fall.The four others are college students. Some came to us having experience in some form of journalism pursuit, or were simply curious about what it’s all about.
The schools represented are: Housatonic Valley Regional High School, The Hotchkiss School, Riverdale Country School, Marist University, Kenyon College, Middlebury College and the University of Virginia. All the student interns have life connections to the Northwest Corner and Dutchess County.
Over the past six weeks they have fanned out into our communities to cover events, writing feature stories and shadowing our own staff to learn the ropes. Managing Editors Nathan Miller and Riley Klein have taken the lead in guiding these potential future journalists week in and week out. Besides field work, we offer a series of workshops to deepen understanding of important topics. For that, we have turned to experts in the community who have freely given their time for weekly presentations.
Devereaux Chatillon, a Sharon resident and member of the LJMN Media Inc. board is an experienced media and intellectual property attorney, who shared her wisdom with our interns. Anne Day, a Lakeville denizen with a distinguished career as a photographer (and who used to edit Compass), gave her annual lesson on how to make better photographs, even with an iPhone. Natalia Zukerman, our Compass editor, shared her expertise on the ins and outs of the interview process. Laura Van Straaten of Lakeville, a multi-talented culture writer, multimedia consultant and volunteer at The OpEd Project, helped empower our interns to become thought leaders through their own voices.
Soon you will hear from our interns themselves as they write about what they learned from their summer experiences.
We can’t discuss our intern program without thanking our major sponsor, the William and Mary Greve Foundation of New York. One of our interns came to us through a new partnership with Marist University.
These interns are at the beginning of a possible career in local reporting. Today there is a big need for coverage of local government, school board meetings, healthcare in our threatened healthcare desert — not to mention a vexing housing shortage and the need to know what’s happening to our environment. More than one intern was especially interested in covering sports, which we consider vital to bolster awareness of what our young athletes accomplish.
A recent study by Axios found that there were fewer than four ‘full-time equivalent’ journalists for every 100,000 people in either Litchfield County or Dutchess County. That’s a lot of meetings, cultural events, sports activities for small newsrooms to cover.
Thanks to our readers, advertisers and donors, we are making good progress with a nonprofit model. And that is affording our summer interns a genuine experience. We will miss them when school resumes in August.
Thanks from the North East Community Center
On behalf of the whole North East Community Center, its staff, volunteers, and board of directors, I would like to personally thank our local community for the incredible support we have received over this past weekend. Our 2025 Chef and Farmer Brunch in Millerton was a huge success thanks to those who gathered to celebrate our work and the vital programming we provide.
NECC would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to those who attended this year’s event as well as those who chose to support us in other ways. We are humbled by our community’s generosity and by the difference this community’s sustaining support makes in the lives of our friends and neighbors. Though donations are still being counted, we are beyond gratified to report that thus far, our community has helped us raise much more than we had hoped - all to support our essential programs and services! These contributions are a testament to the area’s resolve for community betterment and the trust our supporters have in NECC’s work.
We would especially like to thank the volunteers and local businesses who participated in this critical fundraiser. Without the support of individuals, vendors, sponsors, chefs, farmers, and artisans we would not have been able to celebrate in such style! We
encourage our neighbors to remember the businesses that reinvest in their community whenever shopping locally. Visit our website to see a list of sponsors and photos of this incredible event: neccmillerton.org/chef-farmer-brunch.
Thank you all for helping us celebrate the work of our vital programs! As always, we are
moved by your generosity and dedication to making our community a better place for all to live.
Christine Sergent
Executive Director of North East Community Center
Millerton
Realizations from Galway Bay
I sit, eyes closed,
Your presence wraps me like a warm wool blanket.
The wind kisses the right side of my face,
As it gently carries my hair along with it.
I am not alone.
The gentle waves sigh in rhythm,
Their conversations are ever flowing.
They shh and whisper as they crisscross amongst themselves,
As they soak into the sand and crash against and within the faded, jagged rocks.
I am not alone
The blue hills across the bay, covered and protected by layers of soft grey clouds call to me
across the salty water.
They have always been there and will forever be.
I am surrounded by kisses, by whispers, by invitations.
Life is everywhere.
Everything is alive.
And I am not alone.
Grace DeMarco
Marist University
The following excerpts from The Millerton News were compiled by Kathleen Spahn andRhiannon Leo-Jameson of theNorth East-Millerton Library.
July 31, 1975
‘Wheels Closed At Carnival’; Like a scene from the days of prohibition, when the police would break up gambling games, the Millerton Centennial Carnival had its gambling wheels closed down early Sunday evening by N.Y. State Police.
According to Millerton Mayor John Hermans, at approximately 6:30 p.m. the State Police moved in and shut down the 5 gambling wheels. The carnival rides and ball-pitching booths remained open.
‘Pet Parade To Be Held’; On Saturday, Aug. 31,Millerton will feature its Pet Parade. The parade starts at 12:30 p.m. on Park Street. At 1 p.m. ribbons will be awarded on the green at North East Town Hall at the corner of Maple Avenue Parking Street.
The categories for children of all ages will be: famous people and story book characters (individual or group costumes), dogs and other pets (with or without costumes), bicycles or tricycles (decorated), and horses, ponies and other animals.
Anyone who wishes to join the parade may sign up at Terni Store or the Millerton Beauty Salon on Main Street.
First, second and third prizes will be awarded and a grand prize will be presented for best all-around exhibit.
The rain date will be Sunday, Aug. 17, at the same hours.
‘Four Companies Interested in A&P’; Four companies, including 2 in the food business, are interested in leasing Millerton’s A&P building, according to the building’s co-owner, Arthur Fried of Staatsburg.
The A&P company, based in Montvale, N.J., shut down the Millerton store last Saturday after a week of close-out sales.
Fried said, “We’re dealing with 4 different people” but refrained from offering any more information as he said negotiations are continuing.
“We don’t want the site vacant. It’s a good spot,” said Fried, who added he hoped something definite could be decided soon.
Meanwhile, A&P last week offered transfers to the 10 full-time employees who worked at Millerton. The News talked to three, one of whom is retiring, another of whom has taken a job with another company and a third who is just waiting.
Scott Lind, 62, of Millerton, worked 49 years for A&P. He turned down his transfer offer to the Red Hook A&P because it would have involved too much traveling. He plans to enjoy retirement in Millerton.
Joseph Deferari of Canaan was produce manager in Millerton. He turned down the Red Hook offer because of the 70-mile round-trip drive between his home and Red Hook and instead secured a job at the Shagroy Market in Salisbury.
Betty Dunn of Amenia does not drive and therefore could not accept the Red Hook offer. When asked what her plans are, she said, “I have to sit tight until I get something.”